That love thing

I have never understood anything in that love thing. 

Is there ever anything one can understand in that love thing? 

I mean, seriously? These bizarre feelings! 

"To want and not to have".

To resent their absence or their faulty presence.

To never content oneself with what they have to offer or not.

And then, never ever to know why you should love them.

Are they handsome?

Funny?

Caring?

Are they present?

Committed? 
Why is it them that you want and no one else?

What is there about that particular person that appeals you, seduces you, entails you to them so much so that, from the moment you meet them on, you can’t imagine what your life would be without them?